On TikTok, Doja Cat criticized Noah Schnapp for publicly sharing their private message exchange
According to Schnapp, 17, he received a message from Doja via Instagram asking him to tell co-star Joseph Quinn, 29, to "hmu" (hit me up)
Nonetheless, Doja, 26, criticized Schnapp, saying he was "so unbelievably socially unaware" to share the conversation
Following the incident, the singer addressed her Instagram followers via livestream
"Let's be fair, first let's be chill about it," she said
Noah is a kid... I don't even know how old he is, but he can't even be over 21
When you're that young, you make mistakes
You do dumb things.I'm trying to be as fair as possible.When you say dumb s***, you do dumb s***, and you f***ing f*** up relationships.It's okay to make mistakes